Distractions

If you are anything like me, then you probably do everything in your power to avoid thinking about the harder issues that fill every aspect of our lives. Sometimes we find distractions randomly, and unexpectedly;Other times we methodically think and plan a distraction. Thinking about the hard questions we need ask ourselves, or the talks we need to have with ourselves, is a lot scarier and harder to do, than distracting ourselves from it. But there will come a time when the distractions will end, or become frequent, and you won’t be as busy. And you won’t find another one … Continue reading Distractions

It’s okay to have a bad day

You’re not always going to have a good day. You’re not always going to have a good week, month or year. A lot of the time, life will take its toll on you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to acknowledge what you are feeling. Whether you are feeling sad, lonely, depressed, anxious, stressed, nervous, insecure, tired, drained. Accept and feel these emotions. If it goes on for a while, these negative emotions, then start by talking to someone close to you. Then maybe getting professional help will benefit you. One thing you always need to remember … Continue reading It’s okay to have a bad day

Uncomfortable

There will always be those times when you have to go through a situation that you will not be comfortable in. And there will be a time when you will dread one thing so much that you will find every excuse in the book, not to go! But for the sake of experience and your life, you should go into that uncomfortable situation. Why? Because the universe will always present you with the unexpected. And, people will constantly surpise you. I know this is not much, but i’ll have a better post on wednesday, I promise! Now go live your … Continue reading Uncomfortable

Opinions

An opinion. Probably one of the biggest causes of conflicts regardless of where you are, who you are, or your circumstances. Everyone has an opinion, and as I am sure you will all know they are shaped by the environment you grew up in and are currently living in. Now I am also sure that many of you know that the environment in which you grew up in is not the same one as your neighbors or even people in your family. And we all know that this leads us to have very different and diverse opinions that we have … Continue reading Opinions

Top 4 Commencement Speeches

Graduation season is upon us, and to most, this is a time where we are standing at the edge of a chapter in our lives, awaiting a new chapter to commence! So in honor of this moment, and if you are not attending any graduations this year and still want to be inspired and motivated, I decided to share my top 5 commencement speeches that have inspired me the most. Here they are: J.K. Rowling: Harvard University, 2008 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UibfDUPJAEU Oprah Winfrey: Harvard University, 2013 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMWFieBGR7c Steve Jobs: Stanford University, 2005 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc Robert De Niro: New York University, 2015 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TE_9yXAJlxs I hope … Continue reading Top 4 Commencement Speeches

The Universe

My mom always said that what you send out into the universe, like your attitude or whether you are negative or positive, is what you will get back. For a long time, it simply went in one ear, and out the other, until it had become ingrained in my mind. Since then, I know this to be true; I know that if I send negative energy out into the universe and the world around me, then the universe will just reciprocate with the same negative energy. But if I began to send out positive energy into the universe, maybe it … Continue reading The Universe

Saving Ourselves

Every day we are faced with challenges and obstacles to overcome. Sometimes, however, we get faced with things that are larger than our everyday challenges, and facing those challenges takes a lot more strength and courage. Before, and sometimes even now, I will push away those challenges or avoid them. Which is why you need people around you to push you to do those things. Because pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones is not always easy, sure we do it a lot, but sometimes we need that extra push from an outside source besides yourself. We have this idea … Continue reading Saving Ourselves